Posts Tagged ‘Dr. Mari Dias’
GriefSpeak: Everyone has a back story.
By Mari Dias (All names, places and identifying factors have been changed.) The caller opened our phone conversation with a question: “Are abortions considered elective surgery during this pandemic?” she asked. I didn’t know the answer but even if I did, I would not have simply provided a response. I knew there was a back…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: Signs, signs, everywhere a sign – Mari Nardolillo Dias
By Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer (This is a repeat of a story from Mother’s Day time in 2019… my mom’s favorite story – Happy Belated Mother’s Day, Dottie Nardolillo!) It was Mother’s Day. Nancy, her husband Anthony, and their two teenage sons prepared to attend a Mother’s Day brunch at a local restaurant.…
Read MoreSupport for you at this unprecedented time…
People are struggling with their mental health in isolation – which is a breeding ground for psychological issues when the mind is not distracted. It’s a very scary time. I’ve seen an increase in panic attacks, generalized anxiety and depression, along with an exponential increase in depression.” I am also hearing from those overwhelmed with…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: Matthew’s Miracle
By: Mari Dias Both Matthew and his teenage son came down with a cold. The PCP gave them an antibiotic and Matthew’s son improved within days; however, Matthew did not. Following 3 weeks of continued flu-like symptoms, Matthew contacted his PCP again. Upon a repeat visit, the PCP prescribed a steroid. Several days later Matthew…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: ALS
By: Mari Dias (All names, places and identifying factors have been changed.) As a child, Gregory watched the young girl next door as she hung out the wash on the clothesline in her backyard. As he grew older, he thought he might be a priest and he created a makeshift church in his basement. The…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: DNA Tests – A loss or gain of cultural identity?
By Mari Dias How many of you have taken the Ancestry or 23andme DNA test? Initially most folks considered this technology with a suspicious eye: today it seems to be de rigueur. However, many people are not expecting or equipped to hear the results. Stories abound of legacies erased in the time it takes to…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: Valentine’s Day for a Broken-Hearted Mom – Mari Nardolillo Dias
By Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer on grief, grieving “The hardest thing I’ve ever had to hear was that my child died. The hardest thing I’ll ever have to do is to live every day since that moment.’ (amourningmom.com) There is no time limit on grief. Today marks the 37th Valentine’s Day that Anna…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: Depression can be as fatal as cancer
By: Mari Dias What’s in a Name? One of my favorite childhood bedtime stories was an old Italian legend that I called ‘the miracle story”. “Once upon a time, in the Civita Hills in Itri, Italy, a deaf-mute cowherd lost one of his cows. He panicked and began to search high and low throughout the…
Read MoreGriefSpeak: Larry was tired. Tired of living.
The story of an unsuccessful suicide attempt By Dr. Mari Dias Larry was tired. Tired of living. He was 55 years old, and his successful 33-year-old business was going downhill, there were problems at home and alcohol wasn’t the solution anymore. But Larry had a plan – a plan to end his life. He researched…
Read MoreGriefSpeak – Bereavement Support Groups and where to find them
By Mari Dias “There is no grief like the grief that does not speak” (Henry Wadsworth Longfellow) Talking about one’s pain associated with grieving the death of a loved one is the most effective way to move through grief; however, many friends and family may suggest that they have heard it before, or proffer advice…
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