Posts Tagged ‘death’
GriefSPEAK: Irish Eyes – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer on grief and grieving The literature states that the most common time of death is between 2am and 5am. Not so for Margaret. It seems she had a plan. As the matriarch of a large Irish family of thirty-nine children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren: the most recent 3…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: Death ends a life, not a relationship- Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer By: Dr. Mari Dias “The Waiting is the hardest part Every day you see one more yard You take it on faith, you take it to the heart The waiting is the hardest part (Tom Petty and The Heartbreakers, Hard Promises, 1981) (Names and locations changed to preserve…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: Collectively, we grieve – Mari Nardolillo Dias
By: Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer We board a bus we board a plane. In some cases, we have only a name. Of the one behind the steering wheel. With only a voice we know that they’re real. On faith we’re in their capable hands Not really knowing all of God’s plans. Safe travels…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: The Ransom Note – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer, grief and grieving Here’s to the ones that we got. Cheers to the wish you were here, but you’ve not “Cause the drinks bring back all the memories. And the memories bring back, memories bring back you” (Maroon5) – The Ransom Note I heard the news today, oh…
Read MoreThanksgiving 2024. Love, Family, Remembrance, Fear, Loathing – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer on grief and grieving GriefSPEAK: Thanksgiving 2024: A Time for Love, Family, Remembrance, Fear and Loathing Some of you reading this may feel joyful, and still others are raw with a recent loss and overwhelmed with the thought of a holiday without their loved one. Those who are…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: Write your name on your body – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer on grief and grieving They said, “Write your name on your body with waterproof indelible ink.” You know, in case you go missing during a hurricane. It will help them identify us quickly. Many have tattoos that provide a hint of who we are/were. Perhaps a friend or…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: From the diary of a 70-year-old woman – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer on grief and grieving From the diary of a 70 year old woman: “This has been a difficult couple of weeks. I am in need of an outlet for a stream of consciousness approach to my thoughts. Or perhaps in medias res. I am trying to avoid the…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: Black fascination – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer “Excuse my black fascination. Can you hold a thought of final destination? …Please don’t mind my temptation, excuse my black fascination.” Dean Petrella (Distractions). Death is the last ‘bad” word. Many are terrified of the thought of dying; some look forward to the transition. Looking forward to seeing…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: Freedom or fear – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, contributing writer, grief and grieving “When you’re alone and life is making you lonely, you can always go Downtown…” -Petula Clark, “Downtown” (1964) The surgeon general has declared an epidemic of loneliness in the United States. In fact, Dr. Ruth was named the loneliness ambassador before her passing. Loneliness is not…
Read MoreGriefSPEAK: Ashes, ashes… – Mari Nardolillo Dias
by Mari Nardolillo Dias, EdD, contributing writer on grief and grieving “Ashes, ashes, we all fall down” (Ring Around the Rosie) Rhoda took the urn, which contained her mother’s ashes, and put it in the back of a closet. One that she would never use. Never open. She just could not look at it. Did…
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